Stress Gives Rise to Stress

Illustration of person swirling around on the top of tornado made up stressful things.

Stress is a part of life. From work, relationships, or other personal goals, stress can appear in various forms. The problem arises when stress begins to accumulate, spilling over into other parts of your life and creating a vicious cycle that feels insurmountable. This month, during Stress Awareness Month, let's examine how stress can rapidly spiral and how to escape that cycle.

How Stress Begets Stress

One of the most significant aspects of understanding stress is how it transmits. A small amount of stress in the workplace can soon influence home life. Conversely, stress resulting from personal goals or relationships can complicate dealing with professional tasks. As one part of life becomes increasingly stressful, it interferes with your capacity to cope with other aspects, leading to a cycle of stress.

It's due to this reason that stress tends to feel overbearing. It never stays restricted to a section of your life. It gets in the way of everything else and creates the cycle that will make you exhaustingly drained with no sense of agency.

Breaking free from the cycle: Coping with stress

Stress management is not a matter of eliminating stress entirely—it's a matter of learning to manage and not allowing stress to seep into many areas of your life. Here are a few suggestions to help break the cycle of stress:

  • Prioritize and Delegate

You don't have to do everything yourself. By becoming skilled at delegating tasks, either at work or at home, you can free up mental space and energy for what truly needs your attention.

  • Establish Boundaries

Learning to say "no" and establishing boundaries is essential to manage stress. Volunteering for everything at work, in your home, or in your life can very quickly become overwhelming. Establish clear boundaries in order to prevent burnout and maintain your priorities.

  • Take Breaks

Take brief breaks throughout the day. A brief walk, a couple of minutes of deep breathing, or just stepping away from your workspace for a minute can help to reboot your stress levels and recharge your mind and enhance productivity.

  • Practice Self-Compassion

It's simple to be critical of yourself when you're stressed, but compassion is what matters. Be kind to yourself and let yourself know it's all right that you don't have every detail worked out. Treat yourself gently as you make your way through challenges.

  • Reach Out for Support

Grabbing hold of someone to talk to can ease the weight of stress. Friends, relatives, or a pro will suffice. Venting your emotions can leave you feeling heard and cared for. You don't have to face stress alone.

Managing Stress for a Healthier Life

Stress is a natural part of life, yet it does not have to get the best of us. We can break the cycle and never let stress get the upper hand by knowing how it gets around and finding ways to manage it.

Stress Awareness Month is a reminder to assess how stress is showing up in our lives and to make small changes that can improve our overall well-being. Recognizing when stress is becoming overwhelming and taking proactive steps to manage it can make all the difference in leading a healthier, more balanced life.

Remember, you’re not alone in this. There are always ways to manage stress and grow from it.

Kim Ureno

Kim lives in Catonsville, MD with her husband and identical twin sons. After being a Stay at home Mom for 6 years, she decided it was time to reenter the workforce and found a job promoting mental health and wellness. A staunch believer in therapy Kim enjoys touting the benefits of mental health to anyone who will listen. When Kim isn’t in her home office, she can be found training for marathons, playing with her sons and dogs, or re-potting her plants.

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